it may not be generally true. but it highlights an issue that's been around for.. ever?

getting hurt.. sometimes it's expectations. sometimes it's just a lack of understanding. sometimes it's deceit... or something else. but whatever it was, surely you would have anticipated in some corner of your mind, that you might get hurt in a relationship. surely you won't be that naive to believe that it wouldn't ever happen to you?

i had been naive. i had learnt the hard way.. but what of those girls with great guys by their sides? would you tie your guy down with everything in your arsenal? make days unbearable for them? wouldn't you think and walk a mile in their shoes before complaining, whining, and throwing that princessly temper about?

okay now that i just read through what i had been typing.. i realised it's all disjointed. wtf? i'm sorry but my train of thoughts had ran into bumpy grounds. bear with me, yep? (well the alternative is... click that red X on the top right hand corner :p)

well, to sum things up, what i'm trying to say is.. we are all people. there is a set of certain things we all like. respect, freedom, to name a few.. have you heard of do unto others what you want others to do unto you? yeah, you'll never go wrong to stick by it. never.

on a last note before i end this.. crappy post.. what i really want to say is, cherish the people around you for you wouldn't know when they'll leave you.. maybe even forever. keep them close, but give them the freedom they deserve and all should go well, savvy? well, and the if it's meant to be crap.. if you believe in that.. (: